Long long time ago 3 years to be exact I decided to make a change! A hair change. I had been wearing a weave for about 6 years and even though it was a really really good one I realized it just wasn't for me anymore. And before I go further let me go on the record as saying ...I love "hair art" in all of it's forms. Weaves, wigs, clip-ins, micro-links, hair pieces. All of it is fun and creates so much versatility. I'm all for it! BUUUUTTT in that moment for me I was ready
Tell me more... is that all? Is there more? Because I wanna hear it all! All of your beautiful messy sticky smelly truth. I say it to my kids daily! I want them to feel seen and heard and know that they matter. Even when it’s not pretty... especially then. I hope that this creates pathways and bridges and inlets and outlets for them to know themselves... For them to allow themselves the freedom of being themselves fully with out shame. I pray this lives on in them as #MentalH
Sometimes it’s just a gentle hand on my shoulder when I’m down or a text that he’ll pick up the kids so I can finish up my work... or take a nap...(thank the lord)
He believes in my dreams even when I don’t!
He makes me laugh ... he hates when I cry.. He tries to listen even when I don’t make much sense... I try not to lose it when he puts the pizza box in the regular garbage ,leaves his dirty plate in the clean sink, gives the kids Cheetos when I’m not looking and only rem
We asked the kids on Saturday at the #blackpanther screening we hosted what their #SuperPower was. They had so many awesome answers but one of the ones I loved the most was a little girl who said she’s a great friend she can turn an ordinary day into something fun!
I’m so down with that. Sometimes we watch others lives and it all looks so fun and oh so fancy but finding the fun in the everyday is truly an amazing gift! Playing eye spy while grocery shopping or dance party on
“Ewwwwww they’re kissing ohh nooo they’re touching!”
Followed by head buried in hands! Huh?!! Me, “Yess they are and no you don’t have to feel all weird and look away, you can handle it. See it’s only a bare back, they are touching and it’s ok.” These are all convo’s I’ve had with my kiddos recently. ~
Before you clutch your pearls, consider the same kids not flinching a bit as they watch a man take a bullet and a knife while shooting and killing his way out of whatever p